Women still believe that a man falls in love through sex. It is a misconception that has been examined scientifically again and again in recent years, and rightly so!

The Man and Sex

A man needs sex and loves it. At that moment he isn't fixated on a woman at first, but on the outward stimuli that one woman or another sends him. A man goes to bed with a woman without falling in love. The woman, on the other hand, opens her soul at that moment and gives herself.

Men fall in love slowly, and in fact with the woman. With her nature and her character. When he has fallen in love with the woman, he then looks at her with different eyes:

  • Can she become my wife?
  • Is she suited to be a mother?
  • Will she help me get ahead in my career?
  • Can she run a household?
  • Is she faithful?

Sounds somehow old-fashioned, doesn't it? At first glance it does, but nothing has really changed here. Exceptions, of course, prove the rule as always!

Men fall in love slowly
Men fall in love slowly

Men and the Relationship

Men go through a few stages before they decide on a relationship. In the first three months, practically every man has a so-called withdrawal phase. Some only for a few days, others quite possibly for weeks, and it can even extend to three months. In this phase they subconsciously feel inside whether they develop a longing.

Men fall in love through longing. They feel they are in love when they feel a longing for the woman and absolutely want to see her. But not through sex that happened quickly. Because that practice is playing with fire. It can work out, but mostly it goes wrong.

A man falls in love with a woman's way of being. If the woman is also smart, she by no means runs after him, but keeps going her own way. She isn't on call and lets herself be won over. No hunter wants to see his game lying shot on the ground. Nothing has changed about the urge to conquer before the relationship.

Men Fall in Love Slowly, but Intensely

A man is quickly inflamed. He thinks a woman is great and can make her feel she is the only one. But here the devil lurks in the details. He can do that at will and disappear again. That is the famous zero to cloud nine and then landing hard on the ground again. Because that's how it feels for the woman.

He needs enough time, and in this phase the smart woman should let him squirm properly.