Women have it easier choosing a partner - is there any truth to it?

Women have it easier choosing a partner
Women have it easier choosing a partner

Women are actually the stronger sex and ultimately have the easier choice. A man, on the other hand, has to court and make sure he bags his prey. A woman lets herself be hunted, and usually by several hunters. As a woman, you're rarely courted by just one man. They often arrive in packs. In clubs especially, they stand huddled in small groups, clinging to their glass or bottle. Is that just a cliché, you might think? Or are women and men really that different?

They are! Women in particular can pick their man for a partnership, relationship or marriage. Especially if she goes about it cleverly and knows her own worth.

Just be arrogant and don't show your hand!

Women have it easier choosing a partner once they understand that it's this simple. Men are simply wired when it comes to relationships. They just have to hunt so they can then feel like kings who've totally got it! Once a woman has internalized this principle, one day he'll be eating out of her hand.

Unfortunately, women all too quickly tend toward fear of loss and act like poor creatures who can't live without him. He doesn't call? Oh dear, something must have happened to him, and the best thing is for her to call the police right away.

If a woman isn't stuck in this pattern, the world is her oyster. Because one thing is clear: in theory, a woman can get (almost) any man.

So pick the needle out of the haystack; or two, three or many more. Here's what he's allowed to be like:

  • attractive
  • a full bank account
  • good manners
  • a sense of humor
  • a great communicator
  • athletic
  • charming

Be proud, confident and conquer the world of men

Men are simply wired. Especially the macho types! In the end, a woman only needs arrogance here, and a whole lot of it. He'll run after her until he has her, supposedly has her, and then right before the finish line she pulls the treat away from him again.

Once a woman understands and has internalized that there are so many of these specimens out there, it'll be fun, without heartache, but with plenty of finesse.

Women should know that they're the ones taking men to bed, not the other way around! It shouldn't be made too easy for him, because he needs the drama of women. Don't worry, he won't run off quickly the way it seems, but comes back all too gladly like a boomerang. So throw him far, so there's time to touch up your eyeliner and lips.