Have the courage to be single!

Introduction: You shouldn't always listen to others!
Society practically dictates it to us:

You have to get married and bring lots of kids into the world. Anyone without a family is worthless. That's a feeling you often get when you walk past a busy playground or chat with a brand-new mom. But are all couples really that happy? The pretty picture is very often deceiving! The men are annoyed by their wives, who only want to muse about nesting. Fun, spontaneity and passion fall by the wayside! But as a confident woman, you can decide freely about your own life. Is a partner or husband the be-all and end-all of happiness, or do I have more fun in life as a single lady?

Women enjoying single life
Women enjoying single life

Women enjoy single life!

Being single is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! Here are some positive aspects that clearly speak in favor of single life:

  • your own decisions about your apartment, furniture, etc.
  • freedom
  • parties
  • - girls' trips without a partner meddling and becoming a buzzkill
  • - free scheduling of your time in every situation
  • - being able to be in flirt mode any time

These are just a few aspects that can be very handy in everyday life. Women don't have to justify themselves or let themselves be pushed around. Parties aren't forbidden, they can feel completely free and even fall into bed at 4 a.m. after a night of partying. Nobody scolds them or nags them. Family, like mom and dad, is still always there for their grown-up daughter. A large circle of friends can replace your own family as well.

What type of woman are you?

Having a family is wonderful, no question about it. But not every woman is the type for it, and society should accept that just as it accepts big families. Today, career is at the very top of the priority list, and if you decide on a family, your job falls by the wayside. It's different for men, who don't have to scale back at work, even though paternity leave is becoming more and more popular. Managing the perfect family isn't easy, especially if you also want to raise the children yourself and not just drop the kids off at daycare. Sometimes it's simply wiser to listen to yourself and not fit your life planning to society's norm. Women enjoy single life, and that doesn't mean you can still commit firmly at 40 or 50. For most sensible ladies, children are then no longer necessarily a topic, but you can certainly be homebodies and family-minded with your dream man at your side, too. But it is what it is. Sometimes fate sends Cupid's arrow and sometimes it doesn't. Both ways of living are worth living, and a woman can be proud of herself either way!